Getting a divorce can mean making major life adjustments all at once. While some of these adjustments are expected, there are some that take many divorcees by surprise. There are a few things that most people don’t consider until they are facing these issues head on. The most unexpected things about life after divorce can be frustrating, confusing and sometimes comical.
Travel is Tricky
Travel post-divorce can be a challenge for both men and women, but women often run into several sticky issues when it comes to single travel. If you travel before you get a chance to change your name on your identity documents, you may face hassles when trying to buy airline tickets, board cruise ships or book hotels. Change your passport and identification immediately after you legally change your name.
Travel can also be more expensive for the newly divorced. On cruise ships, for example, the tickets are priced for double occupancy, so you may have to pay double or a single supplement if you travel alone. The same applies to sightseeing tours, safaris and other travel events.
Dating is Different
Depending on your age and how long you were married, the dating landscape may be completely different. With dating apps, text message etiquette and the new “rules” of dating, it can seem that finding a romantic partner means re-learning everything you have learned about life. While this can be frustrating, remember that there are plenty of other newly divorced singles out there who can relate to exactly what you are going through. Finding one of them can mean an instant kinship.
Your Relationship With Your Former Spouse Changes
Most people expect their relationship with their former spouse to change, but few people expect a change for the better. Now free of your obligation as partners, it may become easier to become friends.
Life after divorce can be alien. By understanding these changes, you will be better able to navigate your new world.