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Protecting Your Digital Privacy During Divorce

In today’s digital age, protecting your personal information during a divorce is more important than ever. With the proliferation of shared devices, cloud storage, and tracking technologies, divorcing individuals in New Jersey must take proactive steps to secure their digital lives. Here’s how you can safeguard your privacy and ensure your personal data remains confidential throughout the divorce process. Why Digital Privacy Matters in Divorce Divorce is a stressful time, and emotions can run high. Unfortunately, this can lead to scenarios where one spouse may attempt to access the other’s private information, often through shared digital platforms. Whether it’s reading through emails, tracking location data, or monitoring financial accounts, the potential for privacy breaches is significant. In New Jersey, while accessing shared information may be legal, hacking into private accounts or using spyware is illegal and can be considered spousal cyberstalking. Protecting your digital privacy isn’t just about preventing snooping—it’s about ensuring that your sensitive information remains secure and isn’t used against you in legal proceedings. Steps to Secure Your Digital Privacy Separate Your Digital Accounts If you and your spouse share accounts, such as cloud storage, phone plans, or even streaming services, it’s crucial to separate these as soon as possible. Unlink your devices from shared cloud services and create new, individual accounts for all your digital needs. This prevents your spouse from accessing your files, emails, and other personal data. Get a New Phone Plan Shared phone plans can give your spouse access to your call logs and text messages. Switching to a separate plan not only ensures your privacy but also adds an extra layer of security. Pay-as-you-go plans can be a cost-effective solution if you need to make an immediate change. Change Passwords and Enable Two-Factor Authentication Update passwords on all your personal accounts, including email, social media, and financial services. Opt for strong, unique passwords and enable two-factor authentication (2FA) where possible. This extra step can prevent unauthorized access to your accounts, even if someone else has your password. Create a New Email Address For all communications related to your divorce, set up a new, secure email address. This will ensure that all sensitive communications are kept separate from your old accounts, reducing the risk of your spouse accessing them. Clear Your Browsing History If you’re still living with your spouse, be sure to clear your browsing history regularly, especially after accessing sensitive information or accounts. This simple step can prevent prying eyes from seeing what you’ve been up to online. Check for Tracking Devices Technologies like Apple’s AirTags can be used to track your location without your knowledge, especially if you share an Apple ID. Regularly check your devices for any unfamiliar tracking devices, and remove them immediately. Newer smartphones may have built-in detection capabilities, but you may need an app if you’re using an older model. Protecting your digital privacy during a divorce is crucial to ensuring your personal information remains secure. By taking these steps, you can minimize the risk of privacy breaches and ensure that your digital life stays private. If you’re unsure about how to secure your digital assets, consulting with a tech expert or a family law attorney can provide you with the guidance you need. At Laura D’Orsi Law, we understand the complexities of divorce and are here to support you every step of the way. If you have questions about protecting your digital privacy or any other aspects of your divorce, contact us today to schedule a consultation.

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Laura M. D’Orsi Named to 2025 New Jersey Super Lawyers List in Family Law – 8 Years Running

We’re proud to announce that Laura M. D’Orsi, Esq. has been named to the 2025 New Jersey Super Lawyers List in Family Law — for the 8th consecutive year! This recognition reflects her dedication, compassion, and tireless advocacy for families throughout New Jersey. Whether guiding clients through divorce, custody, or complex family matters, Laura remains committed to achieving the best possible outcomes. Congratulations, Laura, on this continued achievement and well-deserved honor!

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Passage of Termination of Child Support Law

On January 19, 2016, Governor Christie signed S-1046/A-2721 into law. This law establishes 19 as the age when a child support and/or medical support obligation will end.  The new law allows for child and/or medical support to continue up to age 23 for cases in which the dependent is still in high school; attending full-time college, vocational or graduate school; is disabled; if the parties reached a separate agreement; or, if continued support was granted by the court. The effective date of the law is February 1, 2017 and applies to all child support orders. If you have at least one dependent, age 19 or older, as of February 1, 2017, you will receive an initial Notice of Child Support Termination on or around August 1, 2016. This Notice will be sent out 180 days before the dependent’s 19th birthday and will contain information on how to request a continuation of child support as well as how it will impact the amount of child support. For families that currently have a child already over the age of 19, child support will end on February 1, 2017, rather than on the child’s 19th birthday, as the new law is phased in. If your Judgment of Divorce (JOD) or support order specifies an end date other than the dependent’s 19th birthday, that date will stand and you will not be permitted to request an administrative continuation of support.  However, you still may receive a Notice of Child Support Termination and be asked to send in a copy of the JOD or order. If no continuation of child support is requested, a second Notice of Child Support Termination will be sent out 90 days before the dependent’s 19th birthday. If no continuation is requested after receiving the second notice, the order of support will end as of the child’s 19th birthday, and both parties will receive an update reflecting this change.  (Note that if back child support is owed, the non-custodial parent still is responsible for paying that off.) If you receive an updated order for continued support and wish to oppose it, you may file an application or motion with the court. If there are younger children on the order in addition to the 19-year-old (or older) child(ren),  parents may need to file an application or motion with the court to adjust the child support amount. If your JOD or support order calls for child support to continue beyond the dependent’s 19th birthday – if they are in college, for example – you will receive a Final Notice of Child Support Termination 90 days before the dependent’s 23rd birthday (or other extended termination date) informing you that the child support will end. In order to ensure that all notices and informational updates are received, please confirm that the Child Support Program has your most current mailing address, cell phone number and email address. More information regarding the new child support termination process will be posted on www.njchildsupport.org in the upcoming weeks and months.

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Governor Signs New Law Promoting Divorce With Dignity

This week, Governor Chris Christie signed the NJ Family Collaborative Law Act, S-1224/A-1477 (Weinberg/Diegnan), empowering families to divorce with dignity and self-esteem, without resort to conventional litigation.   Widely praised, the new bipartisan law passed all legislative committees and both Houses without a single ‘no’ vote. Passage of the new law was spearheaded by the New Jersey Council of Collaborative Practice Groups and its eight practice groups, consisting of hundreds of collaboratively trained professionals throughout New Jersey. This unified and cooperative effort to secure enactment of the new law was led by Council Co-Chairs Linda Piff, Esquire, Anna Maria Pittella, Esquire, and Shireen Meistrich, LCSW. Linda Piff, a national expert on collaborative law from Wall Township, said, “The new law will empower families to divorce with privacy and dignity and avoid the emotional and financial strain of conventional litigation.  Collaborative law is a powerful idea whose time has come.” Council Co-Chair, Anna Maria Pittella, Esquire, a prominent collaborative law attorney from Red Bank, said,  “This law creates an obligation on an attorney to focus solely on negotiations and to use problem solving skills to break an impasse.  It provides for team building that is needed to address all three parts of any divorce:  legal, financial, and emotional.  The client disqualifies the attorney should the client wish to litigate.” Finally, Council Co-Chair, Shireen Meistrich, LCSW, and President-Elect of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals from Fair Lawn, said,   “I truly believe that the collaborative process is an agent of social change as it has the ability to truly shift the way we think about conflict and how we resolve it.

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Real Housewives Divorce: Adrienne Maloof and Paul Nassif Resolve Divorce

Thursday, Adrienne Maloof and Paul Nassif released a joint statement proclaiming that their nasty divorce is now behind them, according to People magazine. “We recently reached an agreement on all outstanding issues related to our divorce settlement and all pending litigation,” the statement read. This is only one of many ‘Real Housewives’ couples to split up recently. Read the entire article here:

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Ellen DeGeneres Divorce Rumors

Are you confused by the Ellen DeGeneres divorce rumors? Apparently, so is she. “I read that we were getting divorced, and I went and told her, and she was sad,” DeGeneres joked to Kimmel on Wednesday. “We both were so sad. I couldn’t believe that we were getting divorced, so I guess we are.” Click here to read the article.

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Divorce Rates Higher In More Conservative Counties

Would it surprise you to learn that divorce rates are actually  higher in counties with more religious conservatives? “Divorce rate is higher among religiously conservative Protestants, and even among those living around them, finds a new study that examined all counties in the United States where divorces occurred and looked at what the characteristics of those counties were.”  Read the entire article

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Catholic Answer to Gay Marriage

“Sister Mary Tracy faced a crisis not of faith but of doctrine: The president of Eastside Catholic middle and high school near Seattle found herself last month in the awkward position of asking an employee to disobey one Catholic teaching to fulfill another.” Read the entire article The Catholic Answer to Gay Marriage: Divorce

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