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Finding the Best Lawyer For Your New Jersey Divorce

Ending a marriage is almost never an easy or casual process. The turmoil of divorce can be life-altering, which is why finding the right lawyer can make a world of difference. Finding a good lawyer is about more than finding the best deal – it’s also about being able to mitigate hostile situations and internecine problems that can lead to all-out war. Divorce in New Jersey shares a lot of similarities with the process in any other state. Hiring a lawyer conversant in the divorce rules in the state of New Jersey is a crucial aspect of finding one who can adequately represent you. How can you expect them to quickly and efficiently file your paperwork and help you through the process if they are not even sure what the process is in that particular state? But do not stop at your potential attorney’s work history, portfolio, and geographical location. The reputation and attitude of your attorney are information that you should discover beforehand. This is for your own personal comfort as a client as well as for the strength of your case. If you and your ex-partner are going through a relatively amicable separation, it may be a good idea to hire a lawyer who is distinguished by his or her calm demeanor and professional approach. Conversely, if you think that you will need to be fighting for yourself in the courtroom, vet a lawyer with a reputation for strong debating skills. Finding an appropriate attorney in your local area can be done with a combination of resources. While of course you can use more formal channels for locating an attorney, like the internet and the yellow pages, it is a good idea to canvas your friends, family, and colleagues for their own recommendations, especially if they have recently been in the same position as you. With more of a perspective on the attorneys you may already have been considering hiring, you will be better-armed to find the right representation.

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A woman has attempted to sue her divorce lawyers for negligence

A British woman has attempted to sue her former lawyers for professional negligence claiming they failed to properly explain to her that getting a divorce would end her marriage. Jane Mulcahy claimed that, alongside a number of other allegations, her solicitors failed to advise her that finalising divorce proceedings would officially end her marriage. The Roman Catholic argued that the lawyers should have clearly explained that a divorce would terminate her marriage. Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2537566/Woman-sues-solicitors-did-not-explain-finalising-divorce-terminate-marriage.html#ixzz2q306bn8Y Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook

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Cybersex And Divorce

Does virtual infidelity count?  Is cybersex and other types of online sexual encounters grounds for divorce? Andrew Feldstein writes “While people may think their online indiscretions are harmless or “don’t count,” the consequences of their behavior are very real. No doubt virtual infidelity will become an increasingly important issue in many divorces in the future.” Read the entire article Is Cybersex Grounds for Divorce?  

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Catholic Answer to Gay Marriage

“Sister Mary Tracy faced a crisis not of faith but of doctrine: The president of Eastside Catholic middle and high school near Seattle found herself last month in the awkward position of asking an employee to disobey one Catholic teaching to fulfill another.” Read the entire article The Catholic Answer to Gay Marriage: Divorce

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Crazy Things People Believe About Divorce

I found an interesting article about some of the things people actually believe about divorce. Here are a few examples. “People think that getting a divorce makes someone a failure. Really? They say half of marriages end in divorce.” “That all it takes is a good lawyer, a decent amount of money, a couple of signatures and a name change to get back to ‘normal.’” Read the article 21 Ridiculous Things People Believe About Divorce for more.

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Can Divorce Make You Stronger?

Here are 17 ways divorce can make you stronger. “When you’re going through divorce, you have to trust that living alone will eventually start to feel normal. You’ll get used to walking through the front door and not having to shout, “Hey, I’m home!” You’ll feel confident heading to dinner parties and events sans spouse — and you won’t feel the need to explain why he or she is missing to every person you run into.” Read more

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Collaborative Divorce Success Stories

Many potential clients come to me and ask about collaborative divorce and whether it is a better alternative.  I say “yes!”  Although Collaborative Divorce is still a relatively new method of divorce in New Jersey, clients are generally more satisfied and appreciative with the outcome.  The case is kept out of the courts, is confidential and the parties only go to court one time, when they get divorced.   Because we attempt to keep the nastiness out of the case and also try from the beginning to work on settlement, the process is more cost effective and efficient.  If you have not yet considered a collaborative divorce, I would tell you to give it a try.

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Collaborative Divorce: The New Alternative

More and more married couples are deciding to choose collaborative divorce, rather than the traditional litigated model.  Couples are finally realizing that the way to resolve their differences can be better served by working together to reach an agreement that works for their family rather than litigating their issues in court.  In the collaborative process, the children and the relationships between the parties is the primary concern and the need to preserve the new separated family.  The couples also work with financial and mental health experts who assist them in the division of assets and with issues involving the children, such as telling the children that the family dynamic is changing.

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